But I’m Not Ready for Love!


by You know how some people say they’re not ready for love, or maybe instead of pursuing a relationship with someone they really want to be with, they’ll ease off because they have to get some things together? Wow, I just remembered how my friends and I would say we couldn’t get baptized until we […]

Single Mother Here: These Kids Will NOT Be the Death of Me


by Excerpt From The Signature Movement, by Tonya D. Floyd: Single Mama Saga Part 2 Marginalized, pushed to the side, afterthought, forgotten often; presence means nothing, ‘til somebody wants something. symbol for oppression, her only mission to impose restriction in her jurisdiction, rebuke, reject, repel, veto, say no, can’t go, can’t do what they want […]

Why Won’t He Marry Me?! In a Word: Ego.

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by Why won’t he marry you? I could be nice and say it’s because he’s not ready, or he’s getting himself together to be the man you need him to be. But the truth probably is he doesn’t feel superior to you in any way that matters to him. Yeah, his ego won’t let him. […]

How to Prepare for Football Season–BAAD GIRLL Method


by Be An Asset During Games; Ignorance Ruins Love Lives (BAAD GIRLL) I must admit I was shocked to find how frequently women out here are experiencing issues because of some sport(s). My timeline is full of jokes about losing your man for half the year or longer, how hard it will be to find […]

A couple of gentle reminders…

by From Timeless Thoughts & Words of Wisdom From the Mind of Tonya D. Floyd, Volume 1: 278. If you’re behind the horse’s ass, you will always be shoveling shit out of your path. Desperate times call for desperate measures, and if things around me start to stink—you know, when shit piles up to the […]

Sins of the mother/father…

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by I started a discussion on Facebook today about children and whether we adults owe them access to their non-custodial parent’s family. Know that I do personally know a few awesome dads who do the then and the then-some, so this one is just as valid for you guys–do you allow your kids access to […]

Do it for YOU.

by “Whatever you are doing, work at it whole-souled as for Jehovah, and not for men.”–Col 3:23 (NWT) Sounds conflicting, but let me explain. You know how we do so many things for our kids, making sure they don’t lack where we did, and providing better than we had? Well, we messed up on that […]

Step out on faith?

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by It’s kind of funny when I hear this statement. People often use this as a motivator for OTHERS. I was thinking about it, and I can’t think of one soul who actually abandoned everything they were doing to pursue some exercise in faith, and survived. I mean, not without a nest egg or a […]

Bestseller bound!

by I challenge you to go to Amazon (http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/s/ref=is_s_stripbooks?ie=UTF8&k=Tonya+Floyd) right now, today, and buy any Tonya D. Floyd Kindle book for under $5 and get as many people as you can think of to do the same. Not just because you know me, but because I’m good at everything I do, and I asked you […]