But I’m Not Ready for Love!

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by You know how some people say they’re not ready for love, or maybe instead of pursuing a relationship with someone they really want to be with, they’ll ease off because they have to get some things together? Wow, I just remembered how my friends and I would say we couldn’t get baptized until we […]

Why Won’t He Marry Me?! In a Word: Ego.

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by Why won’t he marry you? I could be nice and say it’s because he’s not ready, or he’s getting himself together to be the man you need him to be. But the truth probably is he doesn’t feel superior to you in any way that matters to him. Yeah, his ego won’t let him. […]

How to Prepare for Football Season–BAAD GIRLL Method

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by Be An Asset During Games; Ignorance Ruins Love Lives (BAAD GIRLL) I must admit I was shocked to find how frequently women out here are experiencing issues because of some sport(s). My timeline is full of jokes about losing your man for half the year or longer, how hard it will be to find […]

Are We in a Relationship?

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by Why do women go around asking guys about their relationship status? Like what are we? What are we doing? Well, are you in it with him or not? Why don’t you know? Sure; ask him and give him a chance to explain it to you. Because whether we know it or not, men do […]

You have no idea…

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by Allow me to present to some and introduce to others: Tonya Dwan Floyd, Author/Blogger/Philosopher/Relationship Explorer, at your service. Basically all that boils down to I’m a heavy thinker, and a great listener, with skill in wielding the English language as a weapon, or composing written pieces like elaborate musical numbers with dancing, to affect […]

Sins of the mother/father…

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by I started a discussion on Facebook today about children and whether we adults owe them access to their non-custodial parent’s family. Know that I do personally know a few awesome dads who do the then and the then-some, so this one is just as valid for you guys–do you allow your kids access to […]

The Signature Movement–get it?

by    So happy spring break is like over. I can’t with these people at this age. I need my moments to recharge and reflect without somebody talking to me all day. I wrote about it. I’m also over back-talk, sneaking to watch TV in the middle of the night, and people having nothing to […]

Dude, you have no idea.

by This blog entry is dedicated to women everywhere–with special thanks to those who have given birth. Now, I usually try to stay within reasonable limits on my posts, but today it just is what it is. I’m talking about the P words. Pre-menopause, pre-menstrual this and that, post-natal, post-menstrual, and the list goes on. I […]