But I’m Not Ready for Love!

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by You know how some people say they’re not ready for love, or maybe instead of pursuing a relationship with someone they really want to be with, they’ll ease off because they have to get some things together? Wow, I just remembered how my friends and I would say we couldn’t get baptized until we […]

Why Won’t He Marry Me?! In a Word: Ego.

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by Why won’t he marry you? I could be nice and say it’s because he’s not ready, or he’s getting himself together to be the man you need him to be. But the truth probably is he doesn’t feel superior to you in any way that matters to him. Yeah, his ego won’t let him. […]

Rules for Replacements: 5 things to know about dealing with her kids.

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by Mama bear. Somebody said it the other day in conversation regarding mothers and protecting their young. Then today I had a conversation, and it became obvious that I need to say something–many things–about these chicks who knowingly enter relationships with men who have children, and cause a bunch of problems. I swear it’s out […]

How to Prepare for Football Season–BAAD GIRLL Method

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by Be An Asset During Games; Ignorance Ruins Love Lives (BAAD GIRLL) I must admit I was shocked to find how frequently women out here are experiencing issues because of some sport(s). My timeline is full of jokes about losing your man for half the year or longer, how hard it will be to find […]

If you leave me wanting…

by Someone once said pain and pleasure are the ultimate motivators. Well, you know me–let’s go deeper. Behind pleasure and pain, or maybe right beside them are want and need. Even before you engage in something pleasurable or encounter a painful stimulus, your basic existence is fueled by having what you need and getting what you […]

No more labels please.

by Life would be more peaceful for some of us if we weren’t so concerned with labels and changing what is not within our power to change. We say we accept or understand, but turn right around and lead a crusade against types of people, behaviors, foods even. We label others all the time. This […]