But I’m Not Ready for Love!

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by You know how some people say they’re not ready for love, or maybe instead of pursuing a relationship with someone they really want to be with, they’ll ease off because they have to get some things together? Wow, I just remembered how my friends and I would say we couldn’t get baptized until we […]

Why Won’t He Marry Me?! In a Word: Ego.

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by Why won’t he marry you? I could be nice and say it’s because he’s not ready, or he’s getting himself together to be the man you need him to be. But the truth probably is he doesn’t feel superior to you in any way that matters to him. Yeah, his ego won’t let him. […]

Are We in a Relationship?

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by Why do women go around asking guys about their relationship status? Like what are we? What are we doing? Well, are you in it with him or not? Why don’t you know? Sure; ask him and give him a chance to explain it to you. Because whether we know it or not, men do […]

Fastest way to ruin a relationship.

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by “Expectation is the root of all heartache.” Some say it was Sir William Shakespeare quoted, but some say it wasn’t. It wasn’t me regardless, because I used to debate its truthfulness. I’ve come to appreciate how very accurate it is now though. I think expectation is more of a burden than anything. Every day, […]

So now what?

by I just felt a shift in my purpose. So many thoughts are spinning in my head, I figured I should sit down and write something. It’s clear that my home life is changing before my eyes. I’m only responsible for Kyle’s daily needs now. The other two are older, and are not really here […]

Sins of the mother/father…

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by I started a discussion on Facebook today about children and whether we adults owe them access to their non-custodial parent’s family. Know that I do personally know a few awesome dads who do the then and the then-some, so this one is just as valid for you guys–do you allow your kids access to […]

Change your perspective.

by Sometimes all you need to clear your head, solve a problem, or find inspiration is a change in your immediate surroundings. Other times you need to examine everything more closely, or more in depth. Perspective, or viewpoint, depends on what you see with your eyes, but it is heavily influenced by what associations and […]

Do it for YOU.

by “Whatever you are doing, work at it whole-souled as for Jehovah, and not for men.”–Col 3:23 (NWT) Sounds conflicting, but let me explain. You know how we do so many things for our kids, making sure they don’t lack where we did, and providing better than we had? Well, we messed up on that […]

What are you doing?

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by I was so pissed last night about so many things, I figured I’d give somebody a piece of my mind. I can’t be quiet anymore, cause these headaches are trying to come back. It’s those kids. All the kids. I can hear somebody right now, sitting reading the paper, saying, “It’s a shame before […]