But I’m Not Ready for Love!


by You know how some people say they’re not ready for love, or maybe instead of pursuing a relationship with someone they really want to be with, they’ll ease off because they have to get some things together? Wow, I just remembered how my friends and I would say we couldn’t get baptized until we […]

Why Won’t He Marry Me?! In a Word: Ego.

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by Why won’t he marry you? I could be nice and say it’s because he’s not ready, or he’s getting himself together to be the man you need him to be. But the truth probably is he doesn’t feel superior to you in any way that matters to him. Yeah, his ego won’t let him. […]

Rules for Replacements: 5 things to know about dealing with her kids.

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by Mama bear. Somebody said it the other day in conversation regarding mothers and protecting their young. Then today I had a conversation, and it became obvious that I need to say something–many things–about these chicks who knowingly enter relationships with men who have children, and cause a bunch of problems. I swear it’s out […]

How to Prepare for Football Season–BAAD GIRLL Method


by Be An Asset During Games; Ignorance Ruins Love Lives (BAAD GIRLL) I must admit I was shocked to find how frequently women out here are experiencing issues because of some sport(s). My timeline is full of jokes about losing your man for half the year or longer, how hard it will be to find […]

Are We in a Relationship?


by Why do women go around asking guys about their relationship status? Like what are we? What are we doing? Well, are you in it with him or not? Why don’t you know? Sure; ask him and give him a chance to explain it to you. Because whether we know it or not, men do […]

Is it Small, or Just Not Big?


by Think about the difference here. Small packages can be frustrating. I know, like you’ve taken your time getting ready, smelling good, mentally engaging, etc. You’re hot and bothered, throbbing, pulsating and stuff. He gets there, butters you up real good, most likely with great attention to important details…and then…you don’t feel a thing. Girrlllll! […]

Lost Boys


by What in the hell has happened to all the grown men?! What’s my motivation? Yes, I’m gonna be doing some cussin, and I’m completely aware that I’m about to start an argument, but it has to be said–today’s man is represented by a bunch of baby boys with joystick addiction and zero ambition. Side […]

The Interview Went Well


by How come whenever you say you’re a realist, people automatically deem you cynical, pessimistic? My guess is they’re hopeless optimists who hate for you to rain on their parade. But from where I stand, a realist is a person who has learned to strike a delicate balance between optimism and pessimism, based on facts, […]

Signature Body Shop is now open!


by So here’s what happened: I wanted a good scrub, that smelled good, while leaving my skin extra soft and glistening. I also wanted a nice moisturizer that didn’t evaporate or have alcohol, thereby defeating the purpose. I wanted less chemicals in my products–like none. And I wanted the scent to be subtle, yet present. My […]